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Sunday, September 16, 2012

Why Falling in Love Immediately After a Break-up is Great

Open any tabloid today. Any one. Go on. What will you see?

Celebrities, hooking up, immediately after a break-up. Kim Kardashian is into Kanye West suddenly, after her just as sudden divorce (post a marriage that lasted 72 days); Ashton Kutcher, fresh from his split with Demi Moore, is allegedly living-in with Mila Kunis, the petite hot brunette from ‘Friends With Benefits’ and ‘Black Swan’.

How do they do it? How do they fall in love immediately after a break-up? Or rather why? How do they start a new relationship right after the old one goes kaput? Well, it is because it is one of the best ways to get over a heartbreak. Nothing else works as well. When you find someone that you like to be with right after a painful break-up, this new person helps you forget the pain, makes you feel better, comforted. It’s similar to being stuck in a hailstorm and then coming home to a fireplace and blanket.

After a break-up you find yourself disoriented, unstable. You might find yourself breaking down all of a sudden; find yourself getting emotional for the most trivial of things. A new person in your life brings with him/her stability, a much needed support, like a crutch when you have had a fracture. He/she boosts your confidence, your self-esteem to where it originally was, makes you happy and keeps you from doing stupid things like calling your ex after getting drunk. Falling in love right away will plug the holes and keep them from leaking.

And what if this person is the original Mr/Ms Right? What if the lessons you learned from past relationship actually help you in choosing the right partner this time around? It can happen. Your internal radar may actually lead you the perfect partner. So, go with your instinct. Just like with every relationship, don’t overanalyse. Give it time to simmer, let the colour show.

Seeing someone new right after a heartbreak is a great idea. However, make sure you take a little time off in between, like taking a break after an injury. You need some time to heal, to get back to full health, some time for yourself, to take a breather, to reflect on how the last one went and how you want the future one to go. Eventually, you will need to take some time off to resolve past relationship issues, gain some closure. When you do feel sad or hurt because of your past romance, don’t take it out on your present partner. Instead, discuss it with him/her. Be open about how you’re feeling. Remember, it’s not them, it’s you.

All in all, falling in love immediately is a wonderful thing, but just make sure you set the pace for the relationship – a pace where you don’t feel too rushed, and make sure it isn’t a rebound. So, go forth, get over the pain with a new, fresh start. Article powered by Mensxp.com .

Thursday, September 13, 2012

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Sunday, August 5, 2012

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Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Single men are inventoried and offered for sale on CheckHimOut.com, the online love-market that empowers women to take control over their dating lives

In this new twist on online dating, CheckHimOut (www.checkhimout.com)offers a service that enables women to browse through a catalogue of men,add them to their shopping bag, and check them out like mere material objects from the department store.

LOS ANGELES, CA (Sharewellnewswire.com) July 25, 2012 - Just when you thought that the online dating world couldn't get any crazier, with its innumerable array of more or less conventional niche sites and increasingly elaborate services, CheckHimOut enters the market with a new twist. On this unusual dating website, men are objects to be picked out from a catalogue, checked out, test-run and returned if deemed unsatisfactory. 

CheckHimOut differentiates from other dating websites by only giving women the possibility to initiate conversation with potential matches. Men, in order to earn good chances of being picked out by the site's shoppers, must thus optimize their profiles and advertize themselves as desirable objects. This method, the site claims, spares women from incessant incoming messages from unwanted suitors, while giving men the assurance that all their matches are truly interested.Feminist, you say? "Not at all", responds Katie Greene, spokesperson for CheckHimOut. "We empower women to take control of their dating experience in a safe, fun, harassment-free environment, but we pay men a favor too: on CheckHimOut, they enjoy the increased ego-boost of getting individually picked out by truly interested women, rather than face regular rejection, as they would on our competitor's websites."
 
The concept seems to be catching on, with the site enjoying impressive success already, just a few weeks after its launch. The female membership of over 10000 brings the ratio of women subscribers to a whopping 65%, a rare figure for the industry. Each day, these thousands hundreds of bargain-hungry shoppers connect to CheckHimOut to pursue their dream date. And because the site is devoted to women, they keep coming back.
 
It may mean letting go off one's macho side a little, but perhaps accepting to be objectified is now men's best chance of finding a date online.
 
About CheckHimOut.com
CheckHimOut (www.checkhimout.com) has turned the online dating world upside down by giving women 100 percent  control over their user experience. This breakthrough approach to dating allows women to shop for the men they are interested in - and only those men have the privilege of making contact with them. With CheckHimOut, women are no longer inundated with messages and emails from unwanted suitors. CheckHimOut.com creates the first Internet dating experience that is entirely harassment- and rejection-free.

Contact Info:
Katie Greene
(213) 785-5122
media@checkhimout.com
http://www.checkhimout.com/

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Saturday, June 23, 2012

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Sunday, June 17, 2012

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First like the link Then wait for a few seconds and scroll down .

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 Here you have to mark a vote for Avinash Kaul (After clicking on the check box ( appearing next to total number of votes ) a popup window will open.

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Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Why do we fall in love?

"It is better to have loft and lost than to never have loft at all." — Groucho   Marx

Falling in love is a magical experience that happens between two people. So why do people fall in love? Professor Arthur Aron from State University of New York at Stonybrook has been exploring the dynamics of what happens when two people are falling in love:

Q: What motivates people to seek out love?

A: Our primary motivation as human beings is to expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness. One of the ways we accomplish this is through our relationships with other people. We have learned in our research that it is important to feel that you have the ability to be an effective person, especially in our relationships.

Q: How does this theory of self-expansion explain the process of falling in love?

A: Usually, we fall in love with a person that we find attractive and appropriate for us, but also someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us. This creates a situation where a great opportunity is open to us for self-expansion. The fact that they are attracted to us offers a significant opportunity — when we perceive this, we feel a surge of exhilaration!


Q: Does it always work this way?

A: No, an interesting exception to this occurs if we feel badly about ourselves. The process gets thrown off if we can't believe that another persons finds us attractive — like the Groucho Marx joke where we don't want to belong to a club that would have us for a member. We tend to miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we don't feel good about ourselves.

Q: What conditions are best for meeting someone and falling in love?

A: When you meet someone under conditions that are highly arousing — a political demonstration, turbulence on a plane, a stimulating performance — a time when the body is stirred up and excited, we tend to experience attraction at a heightened level. This effect is well documented but the explanations for it are very controversial. I tend to believe that we come to associate the arousal of the situation with this person and our own self-expansion.

Q: When do we fall in love?

A: Contrary to what most people think, the statistics show that most people fall in love with someone that they have known for a while. People only report falling in love quickly about 1/3 to 40 percent of the time. Of course, this varies from culture to culture. Falling in love happens differently between cultures but it does occur in most cultures.



Q: How does our appearance factor into the equation of falling in love?

A: This is interesting; we have found that if you are very unattractive, it can hurt you a lot in forming romantic relationships. However, being attractive doesn't help that much.

Q: How do you explain that?

A: We have found that two important characteristics, kindness and intelligence, are extremely important in the process of falling in love. And attractiveness is not connected to these things. These two attributes are things that people learn about someone from knowing them over time. Intelligence is important in all aspects of life, especially in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship.

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Kabhi Socha Na Tha Shayari Written By Geetu


Kabhi na socha tha humne wo humse is kadar ruth jayenge,
Kabhi na socha tha humne un k bina hum is kadar toot jayenge....
Aankhein chahengi rona par ye aansu sukh jayenge,
Dena chahenge hum unhe awaaz magar alfaaz kahan se layenge....

Kabhi na socha tha humne wo humse is kadar ruth jayenge
Kabhi na socha tha humne un k bina hum is kadar toot jayenge....

Kachche honge rishton k dhaage itne ki wo phir jud na payenge,
Wo pyaar k waade aur kaasmein hum nibhane se chook jayenge...
Agar bas mein hota humare to hum dil cheer k dikha dete unhe,
Dil mein baste hain wo humare,hum jaisa chahne wala wo kahan se layenge.....

Kabhi na socha tha humne wo humse is kadar ruth jayenge,
Kabhi na socha tha humne un k bina hum is kadar toot jayenge....

Dard dete hain wo humein or hum uff tak nahi karte,
Dard dete hain wo humein..hum uff tak nahi karte..
Hum khush hote hain ye soch ker ki us par malham wohi lagayenge

Kabhi socha na tha ki wo humse is kadar ruth jayenge
Kabhi na socha tha humne un k bina hum is kadar toot jayenge....