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Sunday, July 31, 2011

5 tips on surviving a long distance relationship

Being in a long-distance relationship can be tough, especially if the two of you live in two different countries. But thanks to the latest developments in technology, surviving in a long-distance relationship has never been so easy.

Whether you are currently in a long-distance relationship, or if you and your significant other are going to be living apart for the next little while, here are five tips on how to maintain a healthy long-distance relationship:

1. Skype or Gtalk

Skype or Gtalk is one of the best ways to talk to your loved one face to face while you are apart via video chat. Not only can you see the other person's face, you can also show each other different projects you are working on, an outfit you recently purchased, or your new home if you happen to be living one for the next little while.

2. Keep a daily schedule

Before you start your long-distance relationship it may be a good idea to sit down and discuss what time of the day the two of you will plan to talk on Skype or on the phone. Keeping up a daily schedule is one of the best ways to keep your relationship strong so that way the two of you can prove how committed you are to each other by writing daily messages or talking on Skype every afternoon or evening.

3. Be honest

One of the worst things you can do to your long-distance relationship, or any relationship for that matter, is to start concealing what you plan on doing or what you did the night before. This of course may seem fairly obvious, but it can't be stressed enough.

4. Tell them everything

Another great way to maintain a long-distance relationship is to make your significant other feel as if they know more about your life than you do. Tell them every little detail of your day, how you are feeling at that particular moment, or what your plans are for tomorrow. This way when the two of you get off the phone it will feel as if they are there with you for every step of the day.

5. Texting

Before the two of you separate make sure you contact your cell phone company to set up a great texting plan. Texting is a great way to improve communication because you can send each other a word or two whenever something significant happens throughout the day and you're not at your computer to write them an e-mail or a message. This of course depends on where the two of you are living and how expensive the cell phone plan is, but desperate times call for desperate measures.( More on )


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Sunday, July 10, 2011

Your Identity Card

In this earth
It's your golden birth
Do your best part
As your most beautiful art
Live an honest life
Be a smart
Don't play with dirty mud
Because you are your own guard
You are God's ward
Your duty is to work
In your own courtyard
If you can
Wait for falling nut
If you can, try to cut and
Make your own living chart
As your true identity card.

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Romantic Love Quotes or Love SMS

A soul mate can change your life 
permanently whether he's around
you for a week or forever.

Despite all the things you do , Can't make 
me feel different for you.
You always remain the same. 
A very dear and best part of my  life.

Great thoughts come from the heart.

It is beter to be hated for what you are,
then to be loved for what you are not.
Life is not about accepting yourself.


Monday, July 4, 2011

Body Language: How To Send The Right Signals

You may not know it, but you put meaning to what you are saying through your actions. Almost every aspect of your personality is made known through your looks, demeanor, facial expressions, gestures, posture and body language. 

Body language is an important part of communication. To enhance the effectiveness of verbal communication, you need to work not just on your appearance but also on body language, which constitutes 50% or more of what you are trying to convey. And because body language makes up a huge chunk of your overall message, it is important to understand just how you can use it to send to your advantage.

A lot of people are unaware of how they project themselves to other people because generally, people can subconsciously identify body language signals. By understanding how you can use body language to send the right signals, you can be able to able to turn things your ways and leave a lasting and positive impression towards people. Here are some ways.

Make eye contact. Maintain direct eye contact when speaking to someone and vice-versa. This shows that you know and are sincere with what you are saying and that you are interested in what the other person has to say as well. Looking somewhere else can only create an impression that you are not interested or are not focused on the conversation. However, avoid staring at the person so as not to intimidate him/her off.

Observe proper posture. Avoid slouching. This only makes you look shorter and creates an image of you having low esteem. Stand comfortably, with your back straight, weight centered and feet slightly apart.

Smile. Believe it or not, but smiling is actually a very powerful kind of body language. Pouting can only pass negative judgment on other people. However, your smile should be a way to let other people know that you are easy to approach and talk to and not make people think that you are looking for approval. You do not have to smile too often, you only have to do it appropriately.

Use appropriate gestures. You can use your hands to emphasize your words or ideas. Small gestures can also work when talking up close as well. When someone is talking, nod to show that you are following. Careful not to overdo your gestures or appear too nervous with them, as this can be annoying.

Create and observe personal space. Create your own personal space. Especially in close-up conversations, let other people know that you have your own personal space and draw the line just there. Much as you do not want other people to invade your space, you also need yo observe their own as well.

For instance, if you are in a job interview, it is important that you send the right signals as first impressions usually mean big. Always appear interested and attentive in the conversation, but you should never overdo it as it may create an impression that you are only faking.

Awareness of one's own body language is important so you can communicate and respond to others effectively. Knowing how you can and cannot use body language can help filter out biases as well as understand what other people's body language signals mean and say about them. (contentconnection.com)

But perhaps the most significant thing you should keep in mind is that body language signals are far greater than the impact of verbal communication. And if your words go hand in hand with body language well together, people are more likely to be convinced with what you are trying to say. More often, people can tell whether you mean what you say with your body language.

Remember that actions can say more than words.