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Sunday, September 16, 2012

Why Falling in Love Immediately After a Break-up is Great

Open any tabloid today. Any one. Go on. What will you see?

Celebrities, hooking up, immediately after a break-up. Kim Kardashian is into Kanye West suddenly, after her just as sudden divorce (post a marriage that lasted 72 days); Ashton Kutcher, fresh from his split with Demi Moore, is allegedly living-in with Mila Kunis, the petite hot brunette from ‘Friends With Benefits’ and ‘Black Swan’.

How do they do it? How do they fall in love immediately after a break-up? Or rather why? How do they start a new relationship right after the old one goes kaput? Well, it is because it is one of the best ways to get over a heartbreak. Nothing else works as well. When you find someone that you like to be with right after a painful break-up, this new person helps you forget the pain, makes you feel better, comforted. It’s similar to being stuck in a hailstorm and then coming home to a fireplace and blanket.

After a break-up you find yourself disoriented, unstable. You might find yourself breaking down all of a sudden; find yourself getting emotional for the most trivial of things. A new person in your life brings with him/her stability, a much needed support, like a crutch when you have had a fracture. He/she boosts your confidence, your self-esteem to where it originally was, makes you happy and keeps you from doing stupid things like calling your ex after getting drunk. Falling in love right away will plug the holes and keep them from leaking.

And what if this person is the original Mr/Ms Right? What if the lessons you learned from past relationship actually help you in choosing the right partner this time around? It can happen. Your internal radar may actually lead you the perfect partner. So, go with your instinct. Just like with every relationship, don’t overanalyse. Give it time to simmer, let the colour show.

Seeing someone new right after a heartbreak is a great idea. However, make sure you take a little time off in between, like taking a break after an injury. You need some time to heal, to get back to full health, some time for yourself, to take a breather, to reflect on how the last one went and how you want the future one to go. Eventually, you will need to take some time off to resolve past relationship issues, gain some closure. When you do feel sad or hurt because of your past romance, don’t take it out on your present partner. Instead, discuss it with him/her. Be open about how you’re feeling. Remember, it’s not them, it’s you.

All in all, falling in love immediately is a wonderful thing, but just make sure you set the pace for the relationship – a pace where you don’t feel too rushed, and make sure it isn’t a rebound. So, go forth, get over the pain with a new, fresh start. Article powered by Mensxp.com .

Thursday, September 13, 2012

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Sunday, August 5, 2012

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Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Single men are inventoried and offered for sale on CheckHimOut.com, the online love-market that empowers women to take control over their dating lives

In this new twist on online dating, CheckHimOut (www.checkhimout.com)offers a service that enables women to browse through a catalogue of men,add them to their shopping bag, and check them out like mere material objects from the department store.

LOS ANGELES, CA (Sharewellnewswire.com) July 25, 2012 - Just when you thought that the online dating world couldn't get any crazier, with its innumerable array of more or less conventional niche sites and increasingly elaborate services, CheckHimOut enters the market with a new twist. On this unusual dating website, men are objects to be picked out from a catalogue, checked out, test-run and returned if deemed unsatisfactory. 

CheckHimOut differentiates from other dating websites by only giving women the possibility to initiate conversation with potential matches. Men, in order to earn good chances of being picked out by the site's shoppers, must thus optimize their profiles and advertize themselves as desirable objects. This method, the site claims, spares women from incessant incoming messages from unwanted suitors, while giving men the assurance that all their matches are truly interested.Feminist, you say? "Not at all", responds Katie Greene, spokesperson for CheckHimOut. "We empower women to take control of their dating experience in a safe, fun, harassment-free environment, but we pay men a favor too: on CheckHimOut, they enjoy the increased ego-boost of getting individually picked out by truly interested women, rather than face regular rejection, as they would on our competitor's websites."
 
The concept seems to be catching on, with the site enjoying impressive success already, just a few weeks after its launch. The female membership of over 10000 brings the ratio of women subscribers to a whopping 65%, a rare figure for the industry. Each day, these thousands hundreds of bargain-hungry shoppers connect to CheckHimOut to pursue their dream date. And because the site is devoted to women, they keep coming back.
 
It may mean letting go off one's macho side a little, but perhaps accepting to be objectified is now men's best chance of finding a date online.
 
About CheckHimOut.com
CheckHimOut (www.checkhimout.com) has turned the online dating world upside down by giving women 100 percent  control over their user experience. This breakthrough approach to dating allows women to shop for the men they are interested in - and only those men have the privilege of making contact with them. With CheckHimOut, women are no longer inundated with messages and emails from unwanted suitors. CheckHimOut.com creates the first Internet dating experience that is entirely harassment- and rejection-free.

Contact Info:
Katie Greene
(213) 785-5122
media@checkhimout.com
http://www.checkhimout.com/

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Saturday, June 23, 2012

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Sunday, June 17, 2012

Friends Need Help

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First like the link Then wait for a few seconds and scroll down .

 After scrolling down you will see the names of the contestants

 Here you have to mark a vote for Avinash Kaul (After clicking on the check box ( appearing next to total number of votes ) a popup window will open.

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Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Why do we fall in love?

"It is better to have loft and lost than to never have loft at all." — Groucho   Marx

Falling in love is a magical experience that happens between two people. So why do people fall in love? Professor Arthur Aron from State University of New York at Stonybrook has been exploring the dynamics of what happens when two people are falling in love:

Q: What motivates people to seek out love?

A: Our primary motivation as human beings is to expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness. One of the ways we accomplish this is through our relationships with other people. We have learned in our research that it is important to feel that you have the ability to be an effective person, especially in our relationships.

Q: How does this theory of self-expansion explain the process of falling in love?

A: Usually, we fall in love with a person that we find attractive and appropriate for us, but also someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us. This creates a situation where a great opportunity is open to us for self-expansion. The fact that they are attracted to us offers a significant opportunity — when we perceive this, we feel a surge of exhilaration!


Q: Does it always work this way?

A: No, an interesting exception to this occurs if we feel badly about ourselves. The process gets thrown off if we can't believe that another persons finds us attractive — like the Groucho Marx joke where we don't want to belong to a club that would have us for a member. We tend to miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we don't feel good about ourselves.

Q: What conditions are best for meeting someone and falling in love?

A: When you meet someone under conditions that are highly arousing — a political demonstration, turbulence on a plane, a stimulating performance — a time when the body is stirred up and excited, we tend to experience attraction at a heightened level. This effect is well documented but the explanations for it are very controversial. I tend to believe that we come to associate the arousal of the situation with this person and our own self-expansion.

Q: When do we fall in love?

A: Contrary to what most people think, the statistics show that most people fall in love with someone that they have known for a while. People only report falling in love quickly about 1/3 to 40 percent of the time. Of course, this varies from culture to culture. Falling in love happens differently between cultures but it does occur in most cultures.



Q: How does our appearance factor into the equation of falling in love?

A: This is interesting; we have found that if you are very unattractive, it can hurt you a lot in forming romantic relationships. However, being attractive doesn't help that much.

Q: How do you explain that?

A: We have found that two important characteristics, kindness and intelligence, are extremely important in the process of falling in love. And attractiveness is not connected to these things. These two attributes are things that people learn about someone from knowing them over time. Intelligence is important in all aspects of life, especially in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship.

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Kabhi Socha Na Tha Shayari Written By Geetu


Kabhi na socha tha humne wo humse is kadar ruth jayenge,
Kabhi na socha tha humne un k bina hum is kadar toot jayenge....
Aankhein chahengi rona par ye aansu sukh jayenge,
Dena chahenge hum unhe awaaz magar alfaaz kahan se layenge....

Kabhi na socha tha humne wo humse is kadar ruth jayenge
Kabhi na socha tha humne un k bina hum is kadar toot jayenge....

Kachche honge rishton k dhaage itne ki wo phir jud na payenge,
Wo pyaar k waade aur kaasmein hum nibhane se chook jayenge...
Agar bas mein hota humare to hum dil cheer k dikha dete unhe,
Dil mein baste hain wo humare,hum jaisa chahne wala wo kahan se layenge.....

Kabhi na socha tha humne wo humse is kadar ruth jayenge,
Kabhi na socha tha humne un k bina hum is kadar toot jayenge....

Dard dete hain wo humein or hum uff tak nahi karte,
Dard dete hain wo humein..hum uff tak nahi karte..
Hum khush hote hain ye soch ker ki us par malham wohi lagayenge

Kabhi socha na tha ki wo humse is kadar ruth jayenge
Kabhi na socha tha humne un k bina hum is kadar toot jayenge....


Monday, April 23, 2012

Misunderstanding Quotes

A mistake is to commit a misunderstanding.

Love involves a peculiar unfathomable combination of understanding and misunderstanding.

The fact is that much misunderstanding is often caused by our modern attempts to limit too strictly the meaning of a Greek word.

The world only goes round by misunderstanding.

There's never going to be a great misunderstanding of me. I think I'm a little whacked.

We are infected by our own misunderstanding of how our own minds work.

Where misunderstanding serves others as an advantage, one is helpless to make oneself understood.


Friday, March 23, 2012

Prescription for a Broken Heart

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Being heartbroken is a pain that no one can understand until they have experienced it for themselves. You obviously have, therefore are aware of how fragile your heart is right now. Healing a broken heart will take time, but is not impossible, though it may feel that way at the time. It is never an easy process to go through, but with the right prescription, you will be on your way to recovery and happiness again.

The first thing you should keep in mind is that it is okay to feel sad and grieve about what happened and that you are not stupid for doing so. It is perfectly normal to feel sad and cry after a break up. You have invested most of your time and all of your love and interest into your ex-partner; therefore will go through a sad and painful withdrawal. It is notable that you not grieve all on your own. Sure, there will be times when you will just want to be alone and undisturbed. However, it is important that you talk to your friends and family about it. Talking about it is not only healthy, but will mend your heart quicker because you will release the thoughts and facts that are hurting you so much. Seeking professional advice will be a great help to you as well because your mind will open up and see new perspectives and understandings of what happened. It will help you gather your strength, pick yourself up, and find the happiness you deserve to have.

Accepting the fact that you and your ex-partner are no longer together is a necessity if you are going to start mending your broken heart. If you catch yourself unable to function due to constantly thinking about your ex or repeatedly calling or visiting him or her for another chance, then chances are you are suffering from love addiction and should seek counseling. Discontinuing a serious relationship is emotionally challenging and can drive you to do things that are unhealthy for your self-being. To avoid entering such hazardous areas, keep yourself occupied. Go out with your friends and family to help get your mind off the break up. It is best to spend as less time alone as you can in the first few weeks of your breakup so that your emotions can slowly and patiently form back into their normal pattern.

Fight the thoughts that tell you that you are a failure and are to blame for the end of your relationship. When a relationship ends it means that the two of you were no longer compatible and that always takes two, not just you. Instead of beating yourself up over what has transpired, examine your ex-relationship by listing the things you enjoyed most about it and then the things that disappointed you and what you believe really caused the breakup. Look at the relationship as a learning experience and an opportunity to improve your relationship skills, and a way to realize what you truly need and want from a romantic relationship.

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Where to Kiss and what it means

Where to Kiss your Love 

Kissing your love is one of the most fun and beautiful things you can do. There's more than just the lips and cheeks, and kissing different parts of his or her body can mean different things. Here, we explain it all, what different kisses on different parts of your love means

Kiss on the hand means : FRIENDSHIP.

Kiss on the nose means : YOU'RE CUTE.

Kiss on the cheek means : I NEED YOU.

Kiss on the neck means : I WANT YOU.

Kiss on the lips means : I LOVE YOU.

Kissing with eyes closed means : I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU.

Kissing with eyes opened means : I'M WATCHING WHERE YOUR HANDS ARE GOING.

The military Kiss means ..... "Keep It Simple Stupid"..

Stolen Kisses ARE THE SWEETEST! (Always want to return it)

Morale of the story is ... Its not WHO you are Kissing but WHERE you're Kissing that matters

Other signs .....

Often thinking of you means : I CARE FOR YOU

Holding hands means : I LIKE YOU

Looking into the eyes means : DO YOU LOVE ME?

Squeezing fingertips means : I WANT A KISS

Leaning on the shoulder means : COMFORT ME

Getting occasional short hugs means : I MISS YOU

Biting lips means : I AM JEALOUS

Winking at you means : I WANT TO GO WITH YOU

Playing with your hair means: I ADORE YOU

Stepping on toes means: I HATE YOU

Getting hit in "very painful places" means : I REALLY HATE YOU

Dreaming of you at night : YOU'RE SOMEONE SPECIAL

Always being with you means : I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOU

Wearing his or her ring means: YOU'RE MINE FOREVER

Often giving you something means : CARE FOR YOU VERY MUCH

Placing hands on shoulder means : GET THE HINT STUPID!!!

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Valentine Week February 2012

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As Valentine is about to come, Here is the list of all days of love that falls with Valentine

7th Feb : Rose Day

8th Feb : Propose Day

9th Feb : Chocolate Day

10th Feb : Teddy Day

11th Feb : Promise Day 

12th Feb : Kiss Day

13th Feb : Hug Day

14th Feb : Happy Valentine's Day 

Monday, January 16, 2012

What Does Your Woman REALLY Want?


The behavior of women is as much of a mystery to men as that of men is to women. However, one thing is certain. The women love to be wooed. They want to be pursued. They want to be courted. They want men to try and win their affection. It's a great psychological game that both men and women play. The winners enjoy it; the losers end up wondering what went wrong.

To end up as winner men need to understand what women want. Here is a list of seven qualities that every woman expects to see in their men:

1. Well groomed
Do women pay attention to the way a man is dressed?
Do women want men to open doors for them?

Just as men like their women to be pretty, women like their men to be well groomed. They expect their men to be courteous, well behaved and well mannered. Among other things, they expect them to know the social graces. They also expect them to be well dressed, and in tune with the fashion of the day. Men who are loud or bawdy are unlikely to win the attention of sensitive women. The same applies to those men who don't pay sufficient attention to the way they look.

2. Good listener
Should men do what women want?
Listen carefully to what a woman says

All women want their men to pay attention to what they are saying. Men may not agree with their thinking but they should not make the mistake of looking bored or causal. They must pay attention, even if they don't intend to do what their women want. The very fact that their point of view was considered before a decision was taken is enough to make the women happy. It is the basis of a strong relationship.

3. Honest and sincere
Do women want to know everything about their men?
Should men tell everything to women?

Two qualities that women value in their men are honesty and sincerity. They don't want their men to cheat on them or to hold back anything from them. They would like to be equal partners in both the joys and sorrows of their men. Very often men try to hold back their problems related to work or their finances. This is not a good policy. Women feel more wanted and involved when their men take them into confidence. Men should also not try to delude women into false notions. They must gently inform them of their problems without being blunt or cruel. No woman wants to be told that she is ugly, fat or dumb. But, at the same time, they would not like their men to lie to them about their looks.

4. Stable career
How important is financial stability?
Are women after successful men?

Women want stability in their lives. They don't want to be in a situation where they are forced to scrounge for favors. They would like their men to take care of all basic necessities of life. They would therefore prefer men who are successful and well organized. However, this does not mean that they want to hook the rich and the well placed. This is a wrong notion. Money and success alone is not enough to satisfy a woman.

5. Love for surprises
Should men give lavish gifts to win the love of women?
Gifts that women cherish the most

No woman wants to be tied to home and children. She would like some excitement in her life. This is where men need to be imaginative and thoughtful. The surprises need not be big; they can be as simple as enjoying an evening at the theatre, followed by a dinner at her favorite restaurant or it can be driving down to a resort at the weekend. The joy is multiplied if these bonuses come unannounced.

6. Good in bed
What do women want in bed?
Do women like to be forced?
How can women be made happy?

Every woman wants her man to be good in bed. They want to be aroused, and to be sexually fulfilled. The relationship has to be equal in the bed. The man must make an honest effort to fulfill the sexual needs of his women He should, however, not take advantage of a relationship. But he should respect those days when the woman wants to stay off. Women don't like to be pushed into sex unless they are in a mood to do so. They would much rather prefer being cajoled and cuddled instead of being rushed into sex.

7. Intelligent and witty
Are witty men more charming?
How does intelligence matter in a relationship?

Women like their men to charm them. They would like them to be intelligent and witty, who can liven up the evenings and make a room come alive. Men who are dull and boring or too obsessed with their own musings are unlikely to enchant women. Women like men who are willing to chat with them on their wavelength.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Be Single and Happy

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Hey, you're single! You don't need to be disappointed. We bring you five benefits that a single status gets you to give you an edge over your married counterparts.

Sleep

Remember your mother waking up your father every day? Yes, you are lucky. Being single gives you good sleep. There is no one to count the hours you have slept in bed. It's a beautiful world with no one to nag you. Just your bed, your pillow and you.

Money

Being single makes you the Finance Minister. You are free to manage your money. Sharing is a sin. You donĂ­t have to make budgets too. Get anything that you wish. You are the boss.(mensxp.com)

Career

You are the boss of your professional life too. You have the freedom to work anytime you want. Socialize all day and do your tasks all night. You can laugh off at your married colleagues who have to rush home to serve their spouse. You are free from commitments. You also don't share your salaries with anyone.

Denial

Remember, when you're single, you're not alone. Rejection and denial are your best pals. If you are stuck on a date that is turning bad, make an excuse and get out of that place. No one is asking you to stick there!

Self-Amusement

Call up friends for a poker tournament with cheerleaders for your amusement. Cook for yourself from whatever you can find in the kitchen. Spy your neighbors. The possibilities are just infinite.